As you all know, my goal for last month was to relax. As a part of that effort I made a date for a girl’s weekend with one of my girlfriends. The unusual part of my girl’s weekend? My girlfriend happens to be a gifted psychiatrist. Now, when you have a psychiatrist and a psychologist in the same place for a weekend, what do you think happens? Basically, it is a big cathartic time for all. Our profession demands that we listen to others… all day, and do our best to not reveal pieces of ourselves so that we don’t interfere with their process. We are trained at keeping ourselves hidden and helping clients find their own personal truths. Our focus is always on others. So, when we get together it is a filter-free, all cards on the table time. We can freely talk about our shortcomings as human beings, and our struggles to find our place in this world. And although it can leave you a bit raw, especially when it is crammed into a quick trip, it can also leave you feeling stronger, more capable, and ready to take on the next challenge life has for you.
That is how I feel today. Ready to go! My friend pointed out that although I left my career behind, I hadn’t left the care-taking role behind and that I was in a way still hiding myself in it. That I needed to take the time to take care of myself and really process the things happening in my life. She confirmed that these are not small things, to face infertility and the numerous life changes we are going through. Suddenly, I’m not afraid to make my appointment with the specialist. I’m ready to face the next challenge and ready to see what happens next. The wonder and joy of life (my own) coming back to me. How is that for girl time? J
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